There’s a special kind of panic that sets in when you realize your brand isn’t on TikTok, or Reddit, or whatever shiny new platform someone just mentioned in a meeting. It’s the same feeling you get when everyone’s talking about a party you weren’t invited to. But here’s the thing: not every party is worth going to. Some are just noise, lukewarm punch, and people you don’t want to talk to. Same goes for digital platforms.
Let’s talk about why showing up everywhere isn’t the flex people think it is.
The myth that refuses to die
Somewhere along the way, marketers got the idea that being “everywhere” was the goal; that if you weren’t posting on every platform, every day, you were somehow falling behind. This idea still lingers, mostly because it sounds impressive in a pitch deck. But for most businesses, especially smaller ones, it’s a bad strategy dressed up as ambition.
HubSpot’s 2023 report found that 64 percent of marketers are being asked to do more with fewer resources. Not less work. Not even the same work. More, with less. So what happens when you try to be everywhere? You spread your team thin. Messages get muddled. Engagement drops. And burnout creeps in, quietly but persistently.
Not all platforms are pulling the same weight
Let me ask you this: would you run the same ad in Vogue and in Field & Stream? Of course not. Same product, totally different audience. But that’s what blanket posting across platforms does. It assumes every space is equal, when they’re clearly not.
TikTok, for example, skews young; about 60 percent of its users are between 16 and 24, according to Statista. LinkedIn, meanwhile, is a B2B goldmine; it’s responsible for 80 percent of B2B
leads. And Pinterest? It drives 33 percent more referral traffic to shopping sites than Facebook. That’s not a rounding error; that’s a signal.
So if you’re a B2B SaaS company, pouring energy into TikTok might be more about ego than ROI. And if you’re selling home decor, ignoring Pinterest is just leaving money on the table.
Precision beats presence
Now, here’s where it gets interesting. With all the data we have access to—first-party data, CRM insights, analytics tools—it’s not that hard to figure out where your audience is actually hanging out. Tools like Google Analytics 4, Meta Ads Manager, and HubSpot CRM can show you exactly which channels are driving conversions, not just likes.
Let’s say your numbers show that most of your sales come from Instagram and email. Great. That’s where you focus. You don’t need to force a presence on Reddit or Snapchat just because someone mentioned “diversification” during a brainstorm. You double down on what works. You get sharper, more consistent, and probably a little less stressed.
A real-world example that doesn’t feel like a case study
Take Curology. The DTC skincare brand didn’t try to be everywhere; they went where their people were. YouTube and Instagram. That’s where millennial and Gen Z women spend their time, so that’s where Curology built its presence. Influencer partnerships, video content, smart targeting. The result? Over $100 million in annual revenue. No need to chase every new platform that popped up.
Read more about Curology’s strategy here.
They didn’t get distracted. They got focused.
So how do you figure out where to be?
Here’s the short version, without sounding like a checklist:
First, know your audience. Not just who they are, but where they are and what they care about. Tools like SparkToro or Meta Audience Insights can help, but even just talking to your customers works wonders.
Then, look at your current performance. Not impressions. Not vanity metrics. Actual conversions. UTM parameters and attribution models are your friends here.
Once you know where your audience is and what’s working, tailor your content to fit that space. LinkedIn isn’t TikTok. A thought leadership post won’t fly on a platform built for memes and lip-syncs. Match the message to the moment.
And finally, test. Not forever. Not aimlessly. Just enough to validate what you think you know. Then scale the parts that work.
You don’t need to make this harder than it is
The pressure to be everywhere is mostly self-inflicted. It’s easy to confuse motion with progress, especially when everyone else seems to be doing more. But more isn’t better; better is better.
So no, you don’t need to be on every platform. You need to be in the right places, saying the right things, at the right time. Consistently.
And honestly, skipping the digital equivalent of a bad party? That’s just smart.
That’s one more tool in the belt.
We’ll be back soon with more you can use.
Until then, keep building.
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